Funerals

How to Plan a Funeral for a Parent in South Florida

Planning a funeral for a parent is profoundly emotional and challenging. This guide aims to gently assist you through the necessary steps, ensuring you honor your parent’s memory respectfully and meaningfully.

Understanding Your Options

The first step in planning a funeral for a parent is to understand the burial options. At The Gardens of Boca Raton, we offer two choices.

Choose Between Interment or Cremation

Cremation: Ashes placed in an urn, possibly stored in a columbarium or dispersed according to your parent’s wishes.
Above-ground interment: Casket placed within a mausoleum, which could be private, semi-private, or communal.

Gathering Important Documents

Collect essential documents, including:

Multiple copies of the death certificate
Insurance policies (for funeral coverage and financial guidance)
Personal identification documents (birth certificate, social security card, military records)

Choosing a Funeral Home

Choosing a compassionate, professional funeral home is vital. The Gardens at Boca Raton offers unique advantages:

Family-owned care and personalized attention
All-in-one services, simplifying planning and coordination
Customized funeral arrangements to reflect your parent’s personality and preferences

Steps to Choose a Funeral Home

Read online reviews and recommendations.
Visit facilities to meet staff and view the environment firsthand.
Discuss service offerings and confirm available options match your wishes.
Clarify all pricing to avoid surprises and ensure affordability.
Consider location convenience and accessibility for attendees.

Selecting a Cemetery

Choosing an appropriate resting place is a meaningful decision:

Consider location convenience for regular visitation by family and friends.
Explore different mausoleum options: walk-up, walk-in, and walk-through styles.
Ensure available options meet your family’s personal, emotional, and financial requirements.

Planning the Service

In order to orchestrate a thoughtful and memorable ceremony for your parent, you’ll need to make the following considerations prior to the service.

Service Types

Extraordinary Funeral – This fully customizable service type allows you to decide how you will celebrate your parent’s life.
Farewell Ceremony – Allows for optimal physical and emotional comfort to help accommodate your family’s beliefs and traditions.
Celebration of Life – This type of ceremony can be held in our welcome center, on our grounds, or at any location that feels most comfortable for you, including your home or another venue.
Non-Religious Ceremony – When a person who has passed did not follow a particular religion or faith, a secular service is an appropriate way to honor that person’s life.
Cremation with Ceremony – For families choosing cremation, a proper ceremony can be planned around the process, including dignified accommodations and a choice of permanent placement.
Green and Natural Burial – These burials offer minimal environmental impact and preserve the natural habitat, making it great for those who love conservation.

Venue Selection

The Gardens offers both indoor chapels and outdoor locations, accommodating your desired atmosphere and attendance numbers.

Personalizing the Service

Choose meaningful music, readings, and floral arrangements.
Include family photographs, memorabilia, and visual tributes.
Invite family members or friends to share memories or speak at the service.

Choosing an Officiant

Select someone who aligns with your parent’s beliefs and can lead the service with empathy and dignity.

Planning the Reception

Following the service, a reception provides an opportunity for loved ones to share memories and offer comfort to one another. The Gardens can help you coordinate food, beverages, and other details to ensure a welcoming and comforting environment for all in attendance. Other customizable elements may also be included as part of this time.

Informing Friends and Family

In order to properly alert friends and family of your parent’s passing in an honorable way, take the following steps to ensure all the necessary people are notified.

Create a contact list of those to inform personally, including close family and friends.
Write and publish an obituary with service details.
Use multiple communication methods (phone, email, mail) to ensure clarity and reception.

Preplanning a Funeral

Preplanning alongside your parent ensures their wishes are explicitly documented and financially secured, reducing emotional and financial stress for your family. If you consider this option at an opportune time, it can save you from stress and uncertainty when the event occurs.

Planning your parent’s funeral is an emotional journey. Our compassionate and professional team at The Gardens at Boca Raton is dedicated to guiding you gently through every decision and detail. Contact us for empathetic support and personalized assistance — we’re here to help you honor your parent with dignity and care.